A phenomenon called Human Being

Human being has so flexible nature that mostly one doesn't recognise what is it ..

Human being has potential to get influenced by the surrounding and develop a adaptability philosophy to fit in the circumstances willingly or unwillingly ..

At the same time human being has potential to influence the surrounding by continuously reinforcing own philosophy...

When we , human beings allow the surrounding circumstances to influence our life then to safe guard own self we create a pseudo identities to blame, be it other people , God or concept of fate / destiny

When human being takes control and influences the surrounding circumstances as per own philosophy then he/ she proclaims that we are the masters of our destiny

Both situations come accross as realities and this blog doesn't intend to discuss the nature of reality coz its another topic altogether

But even if assume that these 2 situations are realities then when we have the control and can influence the surrounding without being weak and helpless why must we choose to be meek and live a life of helpless being dependent on supposed predestined fate

Its mere laziness and high handed approach to our life which prevents us from experiencing the grandeur of life ...

But critical self evaluation is an exercise which human beings avoid throughout life till death
And hence unknowingly stay away from the fountains of pleasure and ecstasy...

Web of time and seed of creation

You can change your past present and future whenever you want ...

Do u want to know how?

Do you know past is a memory and an event with association of emotions feeling and experience based on our interpretation...

Our interpretations are never holistic and complete due to our shallow perceptions of reality and quick convinient assumptions...

When you change the emotions feelings with your past by improving your perception of the event in as broader perspective then your understanding of past changes and with that you release the memory and replace it with new one creating a new past ...

For example

When you wanted to watch a movie or play but your parents didnt allow you and it created a painfull experience of lack of freedom & oppression at that time which u carry as a memory for long time as painful past ...but when you look back it with broader perspective of you studying that time and benefiting immensely from it in your present then you release the pain associated with that event and convert it into necessary sacrifice and...
Bless your parents for not allowing you and in doing so change your memory of that event and so your past

We misunderstand mostly in life

But when we realise it then our past changes and with it even present state changes and definitely future changes when with our new present

Our past present and future is nothing but holograms of our perceptions evaluations and interpretations of the reality we experience and the nature of reality is fluid as its holographic and hence has a potential to evolve constantly for an infinite time ...

All this happens only in our mind and that's the point to be noted about life

It starts at thought level , keep transforming with it and ends at our thought level .

The matter and experience is an extrapulation of our thoughts .

Life is an expression of our thoughts , feelings and emotions .

Understand your thoughts feelings and emotions and take control of them and use them to create your desired life ...

Our surroundings and our future

Our surroundings and environments are very seductive and intoxicating and hence their influence on our present and future is significant...

Our body has 70% water and earth also has 70% water and when there is full moon and no moon then there is high tide and low tide..
It has a significant amount of influence on our energies and behaviours

But we as human beings have power to ignore or launch ourselves into a state of being which is different then our present surroundings dictate to us

We as human beings have the ability to not get affected by the surroundings and the high and low tides

We as human beings can choose to react differently to our surroundings and effects of the tides

We as human beings can design our surroundings

We as human beings can stick to our designs irrespective of any tangible proofs of their existence

We as human beings can influence our surroundings and create new realities

Just have to step aside from our compulsive logical habit of surrendering to the surrounding and our present realities ...

Present surroundings are the effects of our past thoughts, emotions and actions

Our past cannot influence our future
There is our present between our past and future.

We have the ability to influence our present and so our future .

We are our own past present and future

There is no time or space as past present and future

Its our interpretation and in reality our state of being is our past present and future

Like Spiderman, humans need support totems

Imagine spiderman wanting to fly and jump from one place to another and he releases his sticky net into the sky and it has no support to hold and it falls on to the ground ...

Would spiderman be able to jump and fly without something supporting his net ?

We human being have the same technology to jump from one reality to another reality or from present reality to future reality...

We release our thoughts , desires and dreams into the universe and if it doesn't have any support to stick then we are stuck into one place only ...

The support for our net of desires , thoughts and dreams is varied with different people

It could be hope for some
It could be god for some
It could be faith for some
It could be self belief for some
It could be some person for some
It could be some past experience for some
It could be some purpose for some

So you see we need these supports or I can say sticky walls to which we can hang and move ahead to new reality or new future ...

Without them our thoughts desires and dreams just fall apart on the ground like the net of spiderman without sky scrapers and towers ...

The infinite height of sky and the infinite ground to cover is a too big ask for human being to cover without any support ...

The journey of life without support is
meaning less , purposeless and hopeless ..

And hence those who loose these supports or have a feeling that they have no support ( hope , purpose , faith etc etc) sulk and reach a dead end of their journey of life ...

These crutches or supports are all psychological and however tangible they may appear in nature in reality ...

So it's easy to have a sense of having them and at the same time feel that one has none...

If at all one considers life a journey and cant find everything at present point then without these supports it's not possible to consider the prospect of conducting the journey...

Because those who do not need these support totems are rarest rare few Buddhas who have gotten all at one place and need no journey to feel the vacuum of their life ...

For rest of us we need support totems and must not hesitate to accept and conduct our journey using them ...

Power to Imagine is a boon turned into curse

You ability to imagine will decide whether your future will be new or same dead  past repeating itself with minor changes here and there ..

Your mind can entangle you to your past and repeat it as your present and future forever ..

Same mind can break the inertia of your past and use its power to imagine new reality resulting into a new experience new sensation and new possibility of future ...

You don't need to necessarily take an effort and go out of the way to influence anybody in this world..

If you are able to influence your own perceptions,  thought patterns , belief systems into new better expanding versions of themselves then its more than enough for you and the world around you ...

The world will automatically get influenced on its own and align to you ...

There isn't anything ( activity , place , environment, people etc etc) that you can dislike in this world

But if by hard work or intense efforts you have gotten your self in a situation that you don't like what's happening in your life then you can just simply use your brain to imagine a new situation favorable and likeable to you with complete intricate details and be with that imagination and live in that imagination...

And soon your intense longing will push you unconsciously to take action and bring your imagination into your reality...

So the seeds of your new realities lie in your ability to imagine new realities without getting influenced by your past or present experiences and realities ...

All the people who are dead cannot be ia part of our realities because they are gone unless you keep them alive in your imagination and forget your present surroundings and present reality which is devoid of them...

You see,  those who are gone can become a part of our realities only through our imagination and we can even feel their presence as spirits or some sort of energy around us ...

And its extremely difficult for somebody to accept that somebody is feeling the presence of their deceased loved ones as reality except for the one who is imagining and feeling it as a experience...

This is power of imagination but we use it to expand our fears, we use it to bring into our realities that which we don't want and that we hate ...

Imagination is a tool to design our life but If we use it to destroy and invoke pain and suffering in our life then no one can help us ...

Fake it till you make it... is it true ?

First of all these are mind games

Science has proven that mind is not capable of understanding whether its real or unreal

The mind can give you pain at the thought of a past painful experience which doesn't exist in present and also make you happy about a future planned holiday which is not yet in your experience

Fooling ones mind is the most common event happening on this planet for ages.

You see if you go to the basics of quantum physics then no matter exists until energy or attention is given to any pattern till it breaks its pattern of waves and becomes matter

So what's fake and what's real is a really tricky question posed by the mind to itself creating a duality in which the human existence is entangled since immemorial time ...

If no matter exists then whats fake and what's real is very subjective and can be challenged anytime and everytime

Most cant believe anything until it's a tangible experience for them or its authenticated by some people or some authority whom they have belief and trust them ...

So fake it to make it is actually
Fool your mind till it makes no attempt to interpret the difference in experience and imagination and surely mind will it self bring it into reality without knowing it.

Coz untill the mind is interpreting the difference between the real and imagination it is itself creating a resistance in converting the wave pattern of infinite possibilities into a subjective desired reality

When the mind immerses itself in the imagination to such an extent that it looses its identity or we can say the ego dissolves then it opens up the infinite path of possibilities which always exist but not perceptive to us due to the veil of mind

Does destiny exists ? What is destiny ?

What is destiny ?

It is a definite outcome of an activity or input
Irrespective of your intentions , desires and expectations.

Our body has a destiny and it is Death
It will certainly perish no doubt,  but how and when depends upon the energy which is inside the body...

The energy inside the body can be called as soul or life and  has no fixed identity and destiny
It's a energy field of infinite possibilities

Our confusion about destiny is due to combination of body and this energy which confuses us into a pseudo identity which feels there is destiny when it identifies itself as body and when it identifies itself as energy then it realises there isn't destiny

And between this oscillating identification the whole life is spent in a dilemma.

The dilemma is

Should I ?

Stop doing anything if destiny is fixed coz whatever I do the outcome is not going to change so why do I bother to put any effort
OR

I take the control of my destiny coz it's not fixed and is a mere outcome of my own thoughts and dedicated action .

Let's see a example to understand clearly ...

The destiny of a mango seed is to yield mangoes but whether the seed will be sown and nurtured or it will be sown and will get destroyed due to the weather or any other external calamity or the seed will be destroyed and possibility of yielding
mangoes will be finished , all this is not fixed

Same is with human beings we are a potential and our destiny as a body is fixed but before the destiny arrives we have potential to yield anything

But we are confused because of

The simple reality that the vessel which carries energy / life has a destiny but the energy / life has no fixed destiny , it's only a field of infinite possibilities constantly ever changing flexible phenomemon..

You see life does not have one destiny but infinite destinies ...and it depends on what you choose to work upon at a particular time and it will yield and it has to yield...

You can say TO YIELD is LIFE's DESTINY..

Phenomenon called Regenartion of life

Regeneration is the only activity happening in life

No point in attaching ourselves to anything

If our body gets attached to our old cells
Would we continue to be alive
Every moment cells die and regeneration keeps happening

Every moment everything dies in a sense and loses its life or makes way for new moment

The life of a single moment keeps renewing itself and with every moment all that is and all that exists also re generates

We get attached and stuck to dead moments and dead past and corpses of memories and after all this we contemplate that there is no freshness in life , nothing new happening

We look at life with same specs of past and it seems same to us because whatever you give attention only that will be visible to you
That's the beauty or you may call illusion of life

But in reality ...

Every moment entire universe takes a new identity and we are so attached to our own old universe that the new universe is invisible to us
Life is invisible to us
We just keep dragging ourselves throughout the life

Extreme alertness is required to witness this constant regeneration and feel it and experience it and enjoy it

But we deluge ourselves in unconsciousness by intoxication of substances or alcohol or our unproductive chatter of thoughts and stay far away from witnessing this unfolding grandeur of life every moment ...

Open eyes of your being and look at the constant entertainment of regeneration, constant refreshment of universe

So much is going on and infinite new things are created every moment that even if you are fully alert its impossible to cope with all of it

But when you are alert at least you can witness part of it and part of it is more than enough for us..it will make our lives worth every breath..

Its utterly impossible to get bored in life

It requires lots of efforts and skills to get bored with variety that life throws at us

Detoxification is not required
Dettachement is required

Free yourselves from pain and pleasure of attachments and get injected with constant joy of witnessing the show of life

Our future and our life

The difference between a open unlimited possibilities of future and a limited shrunken future is ....

our planning of future ..
our fears of uncertainties..
our relentless need for certainty and security...

By planning we limit our future and shrunk it and by following our plan to the end we confirm the limitedness of our future...

when we dont plan we keep our future open for unlimited possibilities ..

The contrast is also true that when we plan and commit then only we can get anything we desire but then that anything you get is at cost of every other possibility which could be better / bigger or smaller/worse  than that thing which you settle for...

Now the whole confusion of human being is to keep the future open for infinite possibilities and face the uncertainty or to limit by choosing one future and commit to it ..

Also the infinite possibilities blur vision of most of us to the extent that we are unable to decide what future we want out of the infinite possibilities...

Even if we choose one future and plan to achieve it then too after achieving it ...the infinite possibilities haunt us and we again move to another goal...something in us finds dead end of everything soon and frustrates us to find new thing and this cycle repeats ...

The cycle and frustration stops only when we realize that we cant get all of it and in exploring each moment and accepting the outcome gives us unlimited joy and variety to our experiences and freedom from boredom but only if we deal with anxieties and uncertainties which come along this path...

Why making decision is utmost important in life ?...

Because  till you do not decide infinite possibilities and outcomes are possible and this state can exist for infinite time and you hang in that time and space for infinte time ...

Human beings can get excited with possibility of any thing but they cannot be in this state throughout life without seeking any specific outcome...Or else it's boring and pointless to just think that anything can happen but not get to any outcome

Just knowing that infinite possibilities are always possible is not enough
We got to get to experience possibilities
Coz we cannot experience anything meaningful if we are only in the state of anything is possible ..

That's where our purpose of existence comes
To desire a specific possibility
And not just desire but decide that you want to have that possibility as an experience

When you decide then the infinite possibilities start collapsing to ensure to leave only one possibility that you decide to have as an experience...

That's the importance of making decision they give a finitism and meaning to our life experiences

Or else you will see many people caught in infinite loop of indecision and stuck in a particular type of state for years and life time ...

So decide..

And there is no right and wrong decision at all
You cannot take a perfect decision anytime in life
Coz there are infinite factors influencing it
And it's impossible to consider all factors and then take decision bcoz these factors are firstly infinite and next constantly changing from moment to moment making it impossible to reach a perfect moment ...

So decide with your whole life force and then stay with your decision
If you have taken right decision  then swift manifestation of it into reality will happen

If you have taken wrong or a decision with which you are completely non aligned in present moment then also universal forces will align and bring it in reality swiftly just your perception of it will make you feel that it's delayed ...

So without making decision you see you will be hanging in limbo in the world of infinite possibility completely confused , frustrated , delusional and disoriented ..

Cause -Effect - Cause

Cause and effect in infinite loop is life...

Effect is influenced by the cause ...

which means our future is influenced by our present and our present is influenced by our past ...

Past is the cause for present and present is the cause for future...

But do you know that the effect can influence the cause?

Your future can influence your present and your present can influence your past ...

If you are still with me then you would have only one question
How ?

So here is how past is memory and future is our projection which has not yet arrived ..

Actually all tenses exist in present but let me simplify it for you

The mind does not know the difference between real and imagined world ...

So if you project a desirable future and feel how it's like to be in it then you create a reality for your mind and it starts thinking that the event has happened and it starts bridging the gap between your present and your desired future...

Which means that if you constantly imagine about your future and feel it like it is happening it means that you creating the effect and
the effect would then influence mind to create the cause in your present and that's how your effect influences cause and future influences your present...

When your present gets influenced and cause is created in reality then the effect follows later

And you know that when you reach future then your present becomes past and so you have influenced your past as well ...

2 wheeler psychology - Mumbai

2 wheeler psychology  (India Mumbai) ...

This is a very progressive and enterprising psychology but only implementable when riding 2 wheeler on roads...

This psychology has all ingredients of success, growth, resilience untiring zest to find one's way , restlessness to reach to goal , innovation, risk taking abilities and highest value of time and its utilization .

When one see a biker on the road you will see he or she never gets bogged down with any number of vehicles, any traffic lane rules, wherever there is slight possibility of moving ahead even at the cost of damaging own or others vehicle the risk is taken unhesitatingly
A biker thinks nothing can stop him from moving forward, be it traffic, small spaces between 2 your vehicles , be it footpath or pavement or service road or divider or overtaking opportunity on a narrow lane at the risk of blocking the road and making it one way...

A biker uses time as if every second is important and every second delay would cost him or her crores of rupees if wasted standing in a traffic quietly and patiently ...

Motivation at highest level to make way or reach somewhere, tremendous energy to manoeuvre vehicle umpteen times without tiring and getting frustrating

Team work is at peak the bikers a'll team up and of one makes a way from a narrow space all others will queue and make that space wide coz the four vehicle owners would squeeze and make space for them so that they don't make dent to 4 wheeler whole passing .

The same qualities vanish when they get down from bike and they are reduced to helpless , struggling human being to grow in life and overcome life challenges , innovate, energised actions vanish and so the psychology is active only when they are on bike

If the psychology stays with them after getting down from the bike then their life would fly in sky instead of struggling and juggling on roads...

Law of Attraction is Nothingness of Universe made Palatable...

Law of attraction is convenient way of feeding the nothingness of the universe to us.

Its like catching the ear from other side

Law of attraction is interpretation and is nothingness or atomic universe made palatable

It's a favorable presentation of nothingness which is inconceivable or unacceptable to human mind hence putting the honey of law of attraction into it and presenting it to human mind .

Then too most turn their mouths other way from dish of law of attraction after superficial initial inspection.

There isn't anything to attract in the first place in the universe.

Its all creative imagination and focused attention to your imagination which  forces the atomic particles to move and interact with each other to take forms of your conceived ideas into supposed  realities.

Play of energy is so enormous and fluid that before we can conceive anything it transforms into something else and we keep chasing it hoping to stop and conclude into any form for ever.

And the eternal play is also frustrating hence we create finitism within this infinite play of energy to give solace to our mind and try to make some sense of life.

Our senses with help of the mind keep doing this endless exercise of making sense and creating patterns out of anything and everything .
The day one has complete control of the energies we have and able to focus in such a way that each moment anything you conceive in your mind the atomic particle will instantly rearrange themselves to present it to you in your experience.

And that day you will find the whole idea of creation and imagination futile, zestless frustrating and meaningless because there is  no point in creating anything when you can create anything from nothing instantly.

Your purpose seeking mind will cease to exist that day and so will you or exist like a vegetable .