Saturday 22 December 2018

Goal setting and life setting

Goals setting and life setting..

You must be the owner of your goals
Goals should not own you or enslave you

When you own the goals then you have control over them and your life.

When your goals own you then you don't have control over your life .

Instead of visualising how you will feel when you will achieve your goal you must concentrate on visualising how you will feel on the way to your goals because that's where the maximum period of your life will be spent .

Once you achieve your goal you can't spend more time there and immediately set new goal.

The anxiety stress on the path to a goal is not desirous for any sort of goal because once you achieve your goal you don't know what to do..

Your being has developed a habit of being in constant stress , anxiety, seeking achievement of goal and can't stay without it.

So want to go back to that state of being and you will set another goal which would ensure stress anxiety on the way to it.

This will continue throughout life
So the goals which were supposed to give us happiness peace satisfaction have become the very source of exactly the opposite of what we wanted to seek.

We entangle ourselves in such a maze and keep going round and round without a way out of it.

So choose any goal but ensure that you experience at every step that which you want to experience on achievement of goal.
Let every step of the journey become a achievement of goal and let the final achievement of goal be the culmination and peak of those achievements.

Thursday 1 November 2018

Why self development is not a priority or last priority

Why self development is last priority or not a need recognised by most ?

Those in the self development business , the trainers, mentors , coaches , teachers must have experienced that most of the trainees, coaches mentees need to be persuaded to their own self development and after persuasion as well conversion is miniscule or in some odd percentages .

If self development is the path to better resources to live a life , better well being and better quality of life .

Why would most ignore it and need convincing that they must invest?

My research and experience reveals to me following reasons:

1) Most think that they are good enough and other people , circumstances and destiny is responsible for the gap between their present situation and their goals or desires. ( they choose Blame game over self development )

2) Most fear to face their own short comings or incapabilities ad cannot come to terms them ( they choose to be shell and suffer over self development )

3) Most are confused about self development coz it's abstract and not tangible in short term or immediately ( they choose a life of bewilderment and struggle over self development)

4) Most importantly self development is not a course which one will complete and that's the end of it for one life
Its a conscious unending relentlessly process coz of our limitless capacity to develop ourselves.

Every skills becomes irrelevant after a period for an individual or his surrounding and need upgrade or expansion to suit the expectation of oneself or society.

(They choose to dream about self development but seldomly commit to it or sometimes half heartedly attempt and go back to old ways)

But I believe that

it's a unending saga similar to breathing , eating and excretion
And  it has a has tremendous outcome, satisfaction , fulfilment and more importantly it is only purpose of our existence to become our highest limitless self .

What is your experience ?

#selfdevelopment
#learninganddevelopment

Wednesday 12 September 2018

Maya or illusion or Ultimate Power

With every breath there arise infinite possibilities of our future to us
With each breath our attention, focus on one desired future triggers its manifestation for us
And again with next breath everything again emerges in our perception through Windows of our senses.
Our Realities are a result of conscious or unconscious collapsing of all the possibilities and choosing one desired one with every breath till only that possibility emerges with next every breath and then even universe doesn't have any choice to bring it into reality perceptible to our senses.
Our efforts or focus on desired possibility should be consistent and unwavering. It helps to collapse all the other infinite possibilities and future generations of these possibilities eventually forcing only one possibility to exist and manifest into reality.
In reality all other possibilities do not vanish they only rearrange themselves in such a way that they do not appear in front of us or in other words they arrange themselves in such a way that you see only your desired possibility and others seem collapsed.
Infinite possibilities cannot vanish and always remain all the time .
Our attention to one desired possibility or observation of one desired possibility triggers its appearance over others overlapping them.
These infinite possibilities rearrange behind our desired possibility due to our constant attention and observation and appear as vanished .
The dance of these infinite possibilities in our perception all the time bewilders us And we are unable to create consciously any one desired possibility easily.
Our mind and senses need to be tamed to focus on our desired possibility of future ignoring rest all possibilities however tempting or fearful they may seem.
These choices of infinite possibilities with every breath may seem a illusion or Maya as it is called or it may also be a infinite power to choose any future we desire from infinite possibilities arising every breath.