A phenomenon called Human Being

Human being has so flexible nature that mostly one doesn't recognise what is it ..

Human being has potential to get influenced by the surrounding and develop a adaptability philosophy to fit in the circumstances willingly or unwillingly ..

At the same time human being has potential to influence the surrounding by continuously reinforcing own philosophy...

When we , human beings allow the surrounding circumstances to influence our life then to safe guard own self we create a pseudo identities to blame, be it other people , God or concept of fate / destiny

When human being takes control and influences the surrounding circumstances as per own philosophy then he/ she proclaims that we are the masters of our destiny

Both situations come accross as realities and this blog doesn't intend to discuss the nature of reality coz its another topic altogether

But even if assume that these 2 situations are realities then when we have the control and can influence the surrounding without being weak and helpless why must we choose to be meek and live a life of helpless being dependent on supposed predestined fate

Its mere laziness and high handed approach to our life which prevents us from experiencing the grandeur of life ...

But critical self evaluation is an exercise which human beings avoid throughout life till death
And hence unknowingly stay away from the fountains of pleasure and ecstasy...

Web of time and seed of creation

You can change your past present and future whenever you want ...

Do u want to know how?

Do you know past is a memory and an event with association of emotions feeling and experience based on our interpretation...

Our interpretations are never holistic and complete due to our shallow perceptions of reality and quick convinient assumptions...

When you change the emotions feelings with your past by improving your perception of the event in as broader perspective then your understanding of past changes and with that you release the memory and replace it with new one creating a new past ...

For example

When you wanted to watch a movie or play but your parents didnt allow you and it created a painfull experience of lack of freedom & oppression at that time which u carry as a memory for long time as painful past ...but when you look back it with broader perspective of you studying that time and benefiting immensely from it in your present then you release the pain associated with that event and convert it into necessary sacrifice and...
Bless your parents for not allowing you and in doing so change your memory of that event and so your past

We misunderstand mostly in life

But when we realise it then our past changes and with it even present state changes and definitely future changes when with our new present

Our past present and future is nothing but holograms of our perceptions evaluations and interpretations of the reality we experience and the nature of reality is fluid as its holographic and hence has a potential to evolve constantly for an infinite time ...

All this happens only in our mind and that's the point to be noted about life

It starts at thought level , keep transforming with it and ends at our thought level .

The matter and experience is an extrapulation of our thoughts .

Life is an expression of our thoughts , feelings and emotions .

Understand your thoughts feelings and emotions and take control of them and use them to create your desired life ...

Our surroundings and our future

Our surroundings and environments are very seductive and intoxicating and hence their influence on our present and future is significant...

Our body has 70% water and earth also has 70% water and when there is full moon and no moon then there is high tide and low tide..
It has a significant amount of influence on our energies and behaviours

But we as human beings have power to ignore or launch ourselves into a state of being which is different then our present surroundings dictate to us

We as human beings have the ability to not get affected by the surroundings and the high and low tides

We as human beings can choose to react differently to our surroundings and effects of the tides

We as human beings can design our surroundings

We as human beings can stick to our designs irrespective of any tangible proofs of their existence

We as human beings can influence our surroundings and create new realities

Just have to step aside from our compulsive logical habit of surrendering to the surrounding and our present realities ...

Present surroundings are the effects of our past thoughts, emotions and actions

Our past cannot influence our future
There is our present between our past and future.

We have the ability to influence our present and so our future .

We are our own past present and future

There is no time or space as past present and future

Its our interpretation and in reality our state of being is our past present and future

Like Spiderman, humans need support totems

Imagine spiderman wanting to fly and jump from one place to another and he releases his sticky net into the sky and it has no support to hold and it falls on to the ground ...

Would spiderman be able to jump and fly without something supporting his net ?

We human being have the same technology to jump from one reality to another reality or from present reality to future reality...

We release our thoughts , desires and dreams into the universe and if it doesn't have any support to stick then we are stuck into one place only ...

The support for our net of desires , thoughts and dreams is varied with different people

It could be hope for some
It could be god for some
It could be faith for some
It could be self belief for some
It could be some person for some
It could be some past experience for some
It could be some purpose for some

So you see we need these supports or I can say sticky walls to which we can hang and move ahead to new reality or new future ...

Without them our thoughts desires and dreams just fall apart on the ground like the net of spiderman without sky scrapers and towers ...

The infinite height of sky and the infinite ground to cover is a too big ask for human being to cover without any support ...

The journey of life without support is
meaning less , purposeless and hopeless ..

And hence those who loose these supports or have a feeling that they have no support ( hope , purpose , faith etc etc) sulk and reach a dead end of their journey of life ...

These crutches or supports are all psychological and however tangible they may appear in nature in reality ...

So it's easy to have a sense of having them and at the same time feel that one has none...

If at all one considers life a journey and cant find everything at present point then without these supports it's not possible to consider the prospect of conducting the journey...

Because those who do not need these support totems are rarest rare few Buddhas who have gotten all at one place and need no journey to feel the vacuum of their life ...

For rest of us we need support totems and must not hesitate to accept and conduct our journey using them ...

Power to Imagine is a boon turned into curse

You ability to imagine will decide whether your future will be new or same dead  past repeating itself with minor changes here and there ..

Your mind can entangle you to your past and repeat it as your present and future forever ..

Same mind can break the inertia of your past and use its power to imagine new reality resulting into a new experience new sensation and new possibility of future ...

You don't need to necessarily take an effort and go out of the way to influence anybody in this world..

If you are able to influence your own perceptions,  thought patterns , belief systems into new better expanding versions of themselves then its more than enough for you and the world around you ...

The world will automatically get influenced on its own and align to you ...

There isn't anything ( activity , place , environment, people etc etc) that you can dislike in this world

But if by hard work or intense efforts you have gotten your self in a situation that you don't like what's happening in your life then you can just simply use your brain to imagine a new situation favorable and likeable to you with complete intricate details and be with that imagination and live in that imagination...

And soon your intense longing will push you unconsciously to take action and bring your imagination into your reality...

So the seeds of your new realities lie in your ability to imagine new realities without getting influenced by your past or present experiences and realities ...

All the people who are dead cannot be ia part of our realities because they are gone unless you keep them alive in your imagination and forget your present surroundings and present reality which is devoid of them...

You see,  those who are gone can become a part of our realities only through our imagination and we can even feel their presence as spirits or some sort of energy around us ...

And its extremely difficult for somebody to accept that somebody is feeling the presence of their deceased loved ones as reality except for the one who is imagining and feeling it as a experience...

This is power of imagination but we use it to expand our fears, we use it to bring into our realities that which we don't want and that we hate ...

Imagination is a tool to design our life but If we use it to destroy and invoke pain and suffering in our life then no one can help us ...

Fake it till you make it... is it true ?

First of all these are mind games

Science has proven that mind is not capable of understanding whether its real or unreal

The mind can give you pain at the thought of a past painful experience which doesn't exist in present and also make you happy about a future planned holiday which is not yet in your experience

Fooling ones mind is the most common event happening on this planet for ages.

You see if you go to the basics of quantum physics then no matter exists until energy or attention is given to any pattern till it breaks its pattern of waves and becomes matter

So what's fake and what's real is a really tricky question posed by the mind to itself creating a duality in which the human existence is entangled since immemorial time ...

If no matter exists then whats fake and what's real is very subjective and can be challenged anytime and everytime

Most cant believe anything until it's a tangible experience for them or its authenticated by some people or some authority whom they have belief and trust them ...

So fake it to make it is actually
Fool your mind till it makes no attempt to interpret the difference in experience and imagination and surely mind will it self bring it into reality without knowing it.

Coz untill the mind is interpreting the difference between the real and imagination it is itself creating a resistance in converting the wave pattern of infinite possibilities into a subjective desired reality

When the mind immerses itself in the imagination to such an extent that it looses its identity or we can say the ego dissolves then it opens up the infinite path of possibilities which always exist but not perceptive to us due to the veil of mind

Does destiny exists ? What is destiny ?

What is destiny ?

It is a definite outcome of an activity or input
Irrespective of your intentions , desires and expectations.

Our body has a destiny and it is Death
It will certainly perish no doubt,  but how and when depends upon the energy which is inside the body...

The energy inside the body can be called as soul or life and  has no fixed identity and destiny
It's a energy field of infinite possibilities

Our confusion about destiny is due to combination of body and this energy which confuses us into a pseudo identity which feels there is destiny when it identifies itself as body and when it identifies itself as energy then it realises there isn't destiny

And between this oscillating identification the whole life is spent in a dilemma.

The dilemma is

Should I ?

Stop doing anything if destiny is fixed coz whatever I do the outcome is not going to change so why do I bother to put any effort
OR

I take the control of my destiny coz it's not fixed and is a mere outcome of my own thoughts and dedicated action .

Let's see a example to understand clearly ...

The destiny of a mango seed is to yield mangoes but whether the seed will be sown and nurtured or it will be sown and will get destroyed due to the weather or any other external calamity or the seed will be destroyed and possibility of yielding
mangoes will be finished , all this is not fixed

Same is with human beings we are a potential and our destiny as a body is fixed but before the destiny arrives we have potential to yield anything

But we are confused because of

The simple reality that the vessel which carries energy / life has a destiny but the energy / life has no fixed destiny , it's only a field of infinite possibilities constantly ever changing flexible phenomemon..

You see life does not have one destiny but infinite destinies ...and it depends on what you choose to work upon at a particular time and it will yield and it has to yield...

You can say TO YIELD is LIFE's DESTINY..

Phenomenon called Regenartion of life

Regeneration is the only activity happening in life

No point in attaching ourselves to anything

If our body gets attached to our old cells
Would we continue to be alive
Every moment cells die and regeneration keeps happening

Every moment everything dies in a sense and loses its life or makes way for new moment

The life of a single moment keeps renewing itself and with every moment all that is and all that exists also re generates

We get attached and stuck to dead moments and dead past and corpses of memories and after all this we contemplate that there is no freshness in life , nothing new happening

We look at life with same specs of past and it seems same to us because whatever you give attention only that will be visible to you
That's the beauty or you may call illusion of life

But in reality ...

Every moment entire universe takes a new identity and we are so attached to our own old universe that the new universe is invisible to us
Life is invisible to us
We just keep dragging ourselves throughout the life

Extreme alertness is required to witness this constant regeneration and feel it and experience it and enjoy it

But we deluge ourselves in unconsciousness by intoxication of substances or alcohol or our unproductive chatter of thoughts and stay far away from witnessing this unfolding grandeur of life every moment ...

Open eyes of your being and look at the constant entertainment of regeneration, constant refreshment of universe

So much is going on and infinite new things are created every moment that even if you are fully alert its impossible to cope with all of it

But when you are alert at least you can witness part of it and part of it is more than enough for us..it will make our lives worth every breath..

Its utterly impossible to get bored in life

It requires lots of efforts and skills to get bored with variety that life throws at us

Detoxification is not required
Dettachement is required

Free yourselves from pain and pleasure of attachments and get injected with constant joy of witnessing the show of life

Our future and our life

The difference between a open unlimited possibilities of future and a limited shrunken future is ....

our planning of future ..
our fears of uncertainties..
our relentless need for certainty and security...

By planning we limit our future and shrunk it and by following our plan to the end we confirm the limitedness of our future...

when we dont plan we keep our future open for unlimited possibilities ..

The contrast is also true that when we plan and commit then only we can get anything we desire but then that anything you get is at cost of every other possibility which could be better / bigger or smaller/worse  than that thing which you settle for...

Now the whole confusion of human being is to keep the future open for infinite possibilities and face the uncertainty or to limit by choosing one future and commit to it ..

Also the infinite possibilities blur vision of most of us to the extent that we are unable to decide what future we want out of the infinite possibilities...

Even if we choose one future and plan to achieve it then too after achieving it ...the infinite possibilities haunt us and we again move to another goal...something in us finds dead end of everything soon and frustrates us to find new thing and this cycle repeats ...

The cycle and frustration stops only when we realize that we cant get all of it and in exploring each moment and accepting the outcome gives us unlimited joy and variety to our experiences and freedom from boredom but only if we deal with anxieties and uncertainties which come along this path...

Why making decision is utmost important in life ?...

Because  till you do not decide infinite possibilities and outcomes are possible and this state can exist for infinite time and you hang in that time and space for infinte time ...

Human beings can get excited with possibility of any thing but they cannot be in this state throughout life without seeking any specific outcome...Or else it's boring and pointless to just think that anything can happen but not get to any outcome

Just knowing that infinite possibilities are always possible is not enough
We got to get to experience possibilities
Coz we cannot experience anything meaningful if we are only in the state of anything is possible ..

That's where our purpose of existence comes
To desire a specific possibility
And not just desire but decide that you want to have that possibility as an experience

When you decide then the infinite possibilities start collapsing to ensure to leave only one possibility that you decide to have as an experience...

That's the importance of making decision they give a finitism and meaning to our life experiences

Or else you will see many people caught in infinite loop of indecision and stuck in a particular type of state for years and life time ...

So decide..

And there is no right and wrong decision at all
You cannot take a perfect decision anytime in life
Coz there are infinite factors influencing it
And it's impossible to consider all factors and then take decision bcoz these factors are firstly infinite and next constantly changing from moment to moment making it impossible to reach a perfect moment ...

So decide with your whole life force and then stay with your decision
If you have taken right decision  then swift manifestation of it into reality will happen

If you have taken wrong or a decision with which you are completely non aligned in present moment then also universal forces will align and bring it in reality swiftly just your perception of it will make you feel that it's delayed ...

So without making decision you see you will be hanging in limbo in the world of infinite possibility completely confused , frustrated , delusional and disoriented ..

Cause -Effect - Cause

Cause and effect in infinite loop is life...

Effect is influenced by the cause ...

which means our future is influenced by our present and our present is influenced by our past ...

Past is the cause for present and present is the cause for future...

But do you know that the effect can influence the cause?

Your future can influence your present and your present can influence your past ...

If you are still with me then you would have only one question
How ?

So here is how past is memory and future is our projection which has not yet arrived ..

Actually all tenses exist in present but let me simplify it for you

The mind does not know the difference between real and imagined world ...

So if you project a desirable future and feel how it's like to be in it then you create a reality for your mind and it starts thinking that the event has happened and it starts bridging the gap between your present and your desired future...

Which means that if you constantly imagine about your future and feel it like it is happening it means that you creating the effect and
the effect would then influence mind to create the cause in your present and that's how your effect influences cause and future influences your present...

When your present gets influenced and cause is created in reality then the effect follows later

And you know that when you reach future then your present becomes past and so you have influenced your past as well ...

2 wheeler psychology - Mumbai

2 wheeler psychology  (India Mumbai) ...

This is a very progressive and enterprising psychology but only implementable when riding 2 wheeler on roads...

This psychology has all ingredients of success, growth, resilience untiring zest to find one's way , restlessness to reach to goal , innovation, risk taking abilities and highest value of time and its utilization .

When one see a biker on the road you will see he or she never gets bogged down with any number of vehicles, any traffic lane rules, wherever there is slight possibility of moving ahead even at the cost of damaging own or others vehicle the risk is taken unhesitatingly
A biker thinks nothing can stop him from moving forward, be it traffic, small spaces between 2 your vehicles , be it footpath or pavement or service road or divider or overtaking opportunity on a narrow lane at the risk of blocking the road and making it one way...

A biker uses time as if every second is important and every second delay would cost him or her crores of rupees if wasted standing in a traffic quietly and patiently ...

Motivation at highest level to make way or reach somewhere, tremendous energy to manoeuvre vehicle umpteen times without tiring and getting frustrating

Team work is at peak the bikers a'll team up and of one makes a way from a narrow space all others will queue and make that space wide coz the four vehicle owners would squeeze and make space for them so that they don't make dent to 4 wheeler whole passing .

The same qualities vanish when they get down from bike and they are reduced to helpless , struggling human being to grow in life and overcome life challenges , innovate, energised actions vanish and so the psychology is active only when they are on bike

If the psychology stays with them after getting down from the bike then their life would fly in sky instead of struggling and juggling on roads...

Law of Attraction is Nothingness of Universe made Palatable...

Law of attraction is convenient way of feeding the nothingness of the universe to us.

Its like catching the ear from other side

Law of attraction is interpretation and is nothingness or atomic universe made palatable

It's a favorable presentation of nothingness which is inconceivable or unacceptable to human mind hence putting the honey of law of attraction into it and presenting it to human mind .

Then too most turn their mouths other way from dish of law of attraction after superficial initial inspection.

There isn't anything to attract in the first place in the universe.

Its all creative imagination and focused attention to your imagination which  forces the atomic particles to move and interact with each other to take forms of your conceived ideas into supposed  realities.

Play of energy is so enormous and fluid that before we can conceive anything it transforms into something else and we keep chasing it hoping to stop and conclude into any form for ever.

And the eternal play is also frustrating hence we create finitism within this infinite play of energy to give solace to our mind and try to make some sense of life.

Our senses with help of the mind keep doing this endless exercise of making sense and creating patterns out of anything and everything .
The day one has complete control of the energies we have and able to focus in such a way that each moment anything you conceive in your mind the atomic particle will instantly rearrange themselves to present it to you in your experience.

And that day you will find the whole idea of creation and imagination futile, zestless frustrating and meaningless because there is  no point in creating anything when you can create anything from nothing instantly.

Your purpose seeking mind will cease to exist that day and so will you or exist like a vegetable .

Goal setting and life setting

Goals setting and life setting..

You must be the owner of your goals
Goals should not own you or enslave you

When you own the goals then you have control over them and your life.

When your goals own you then you don't have control over your life .

Instead of visualising how you will feel when you will achieve your goal you must concentrate on visualising how you will feel on the way to your goals because that's where the maximum period of your life will be spent .

Once you achieve your goal you can't spend more time there and immediately set new goal.

The anxiety stress on the path to a goal is not desirous for any sort of goal because once you achieve your goal you don't know what to do..

Your being has developed a habit of being in constant stress , anxiety, seeking achievement of goal and can't stay without it.

So want to go back to that state of being and you will set another goal which would ensure stress anxiety on the way to it.

This will continue throughout life
So the goals which were supposed to give us happiness peace satisfaction have become the very source of exactly the opposite of what we wanted to seek.

We entangle ourselves in such a maze and keep going round and round without a way out of it.

So choose any goal but ensure that you experience at every step that which you want to experience on achievement of goal.
Let every step of the journey become a achievement of goal and let the final achievement of goal be the culmination and peak of those achievements.

Why self development is not a priority or last priority

Why self development is last priority or not a need recognised by most ?

Those in the self development business , the trainers, mentors , coaches , teachers must have experienced that most of the trainees, coaches mentees need to be persuaded to their own self development and after persuasion as well conversion is miniscule or in some odd percentages .

If self development is the path to better resources to live a life , better well being and better quality of life .

Why would most ignore it and need convincing that they must invest?

My research and experience reveals to me following reasons:

1) Most think that they are good enough and other people , circumstances and destiny is responsible for the gap between their present situation and their goals or desires. ( they choose Blame game over self development )

2) Most fear to face their own short comings or incapabilities ad cannot come to terms them ( they choose to be shell and suffer over self development )

3) Most are confused about self development coz it's abstract and not tangible in short term or immediately ( they choose a life of bewilderment and struggle over self development)

4) Most importantly self development is not a course which one will complete and that's the end of it for one life
Its a conscious unending relentlessly process coz of our limitless capacity to develop ourselves.

Every skills becomes irrelevant after a period for an individual or his surrounding and need upgrade or expansion to suit the expectation of oneself or society.

(They choose to dream about self development but seldomly commit to it or sometimes half heartedly attempt and go back to old ways)

But I believe that

it's a unending saga similar to breathing , eating and excretion
And  it has a has tremendous outcome, satisfaction , fulfilment and more importantly it is only purpose of our existence to become our highest limitless self .

What is your experience ?

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Maya or illusion or Ultimate Power

With every breath there arise infinite possibilities of our future to us
With each breath our attention, focus on one desired future triggers its manifestation for us

And again with next breath everything again emerges in our perception through Windows of our senses.

Our Realities are a result of conscious or unconscious collapsing of all the possibilities and choosing one desired one with every breath till only that possibility emerges with next every breath and then even universe doesn't have any choice to bring it into reality perceptible to our senses.

Our efforts or focus on desired possibility should be consistent and unwavering. It helps to collapse all the other infinite possibilities and future generations of these possibilities eventually forcing only one possibility to exist and manifest into reality.

In reality all other possibilities do not vanish they only rearrange themselves in such a way that they do not appear in front of us or in other words they arrange themselves in such a way that you see only your desired possibility and others seem collapsed.

Infinite possibilities cannot vanish and always remain all the time .
Our attention to one desired possibility or observation of one desired possibility triggers its appearance over others overlapping them.

These infinite possibilities rearrange behind our desired possibility due to our constant attention and observation and appear as vanished .

The dance of these infinite possibilities in our perception all the time bewilders us And we are unable to create consciously any one desired possibility easily.

Our mind and senses need to be tamed to focus on our desired possibility of future ignoring rest all possibilities however tempting or fearful they may seem.

These choices of infinite possibilities with every breath may seem a illusion or Maya as it is called or it may also be a infinite power to choose any future we desire from infinite possibilities arising every breath.

Casual communications ...

Whenever we communicate with others , the words and emotions we choose to express ourselves need to be specific to the possible world view of the other person or a group in context to the subject of conversation.

Because in every conversation 2 worlds collide ( Individual worlds with their unique ideas and perceptions about everything and the specific thing in conversation )

Every language has words which are interpreted freely by every individual depending upon an individual's  association or experience with that word keeping the interpretation in a range of dictionary meaning and context possessed by that word.

Eg Fear  is a word which has many associative meanings based on the experiences of an individual within its dictionary meaning and context.
For some speaking in a group is FEAR 
For some speaking in front of a group is FEAR
For some talking to strangers is FEAR 
For some speaking with strangers , or speaking in a group or in front of a group is FUN but heights is FEAR  etc etc 

When such words are used we trigger their possible associations in the other person's mind  and if the context in which the word fear is used  is very very different from their associations then there is a possibility of mis -communicating  the context of the communication or distracting the whole conversation.

So....

Whats the choice left with us while communicating and choosing our words ???

We cant possibly predict what associations or interpretations our choice of words may trigger but we can certainly be careful in our choice as to limit the possibility of distracting the other person or the audience and being aware while communicating.

Most communications fall under casual communications in the sense that they are not made in total awareness and with absolute control on the choosing the words in the conversation.

The outcome is left to the other person and also the blame of misunderstanding rest on them.

With so many casual communications in this world harmony and peace would be an aspiration in any era of mankind.

Yes, crystal clear communication is extremely difficult or rather impossible  between human beings unlike the animals where things are very straight and simple with no liberty to interpret messages in an unique individualistic way.

Hence animals are in absolute peace and harmony with each other and with the cosmos. 

Our need for survival and  manipulative adaptions take us through such chaos of casual communications.

Books O Books...

My journey from a person who struggled to read a single page of a book to  becoming a voracious reader and then turning to writing and becoming a Author was awesome

Living beings around me were of less help then those who poured their soul into their books as authors and Transformed me
Lifted me
Carcassed me
Encouraged me
Stirred me
Served as a support in the journey of life
Played a major role in my transformation

Books and through them the authors who shaped my thoughts and characters are real heroes of my life

And really books are , non interfering , non  intimidating,  not dominating , not prejudiced but are innocent , neutral,
non reactive , being themselves and just offer their services to us to transform our perceptions without any compulsions .

They don't care who you are and just offer themselves to us selflessly  for understanding, evaluating  and accepting them.

Living beings could take these qualities from these non living beings (books)  who infuse life in so called living beings .

In life it's one's duty to share the treasure one has  found and leveraged to bring happiness blessings and harmony in one's own life, so that others can also have access to happiness blessings and harmony in their life through that treasure .

I am doing my duty to share the treasure I found with you all.

I urge the reader to turn to books and explore them deeply to find what you are seeking and longing in life.

Even if you haven't read more than few pages in your life it's possible to gulp many books .
I am suggesting you an idea for the same.

Just find out in what state of mind and emotions you are now
how your life is shaping as per your expectations

I am sure you would want more from life at this time

So note down the state of mind and feelings in a piece of paper

And explore availability of books with themes similar to your state of mind and emotions and then select the book and start reading to explore more your own feelings and state of mind

Then see the magic you would not realise when you are half a way through the book

Once you savour the content of book and implement in your life and benefit and see the transformation then you have tasted the treasure and will be unstoppable .

Go for it and shine in your life
You are worth the shine
You deserve the shine
Your destiny is to shine brightly like the sun.....

Happy reading ....

The Universe is a Service provider...

The universe only seeks from us clarity, intensity and consistency.
If we are clear in asking or desiring
If we intensely associate with our desire
If we are consistent
Then we would always receive.

The universe is not a person that it wouldn't respond to your desires.

It is ever ready , to offer you whatever you seek .

It is impartial and neutral .
It does not distinguish what's right or wrong ,  good or bad etc

The department of evaluation and interpretation belongs to our mind and ultimately us.

The Universe is ever ready to serve us.

We must be ready for receiving the services by making right choices

It is capable to give us but we may require capability building to receive and handle it.

The will power to make choices to ask with clarity , intensity and consistency is the supreme power we got as human beings which shape our destiny.

So our destiny is indirectly in our choices which we make using our will power .

Destiny is fixed and unchanged for each of our choices. But we have the power to choose our destiny through them.

The universe is a friend who sincerely guides and supports our every endeavour of shaping our destiny without interfering .

If we cannot get clarity intensity and consistency for anything in life then we are wasting our WILL POWER.

And the universe will only respond to our confusion  by offering more confusion.

Determination is the key to all that happens in our life.

Our thoughts emotions and actions are all small bogies which need to align if the whole vehicle of our life has to move in some direction.

Our senses are biggest distractions at the same time important source of understanding and interpreting the universe.

So while we get ourselves entangled in our thoughts through senses and then emotions through feelings and keep rotating and revolving in our life the universe patiently waits for instructions from us to serve and support us in our journey.

It has nothing to do us with quality of our journey or length of our journey .

It's only a SERVICE PROVIDER ...

ShishyaPurnima

Today's learners face a unique challenge
They are looking for a best tutor or teacher or trainer but they themselves are not willing to become best student or learners.
The attitude of judging the teacher or trainer interferes so much while learning or hiring one that learning gets lowest priority and they end up not getting any value from the whole engagement .

The fact remains the teacher is as good as the student .

There was a time when sishya  (learner ) used to wait for the Guru to make him his student ...

We all know the story of Eklavya that he wasn't even allowed by Dron acharya to be his student and he learnt unofficially and when guru demanded guru dakshina he happily gave away his thumb fully knowing that the guru asked everything he had from him as a archer...

But in today's generation the guru waits for the learners  to hire him or approve him as his teacher or trainer .

Negotiations for guru dakshina are as essential for learners as oxygen for living .

Such is the situation that the moment learner declares he wants to learn many gurus line up to present themselves as the best and deserving for the job.

Soon those days are not far when
Guru purnima will be a thing of past and Shishyapurnima will be celebrated and gurus will be lining up with gifts and sweets to impress students ..

The prevalent trend might dilute the already diluted education system.

Just like we can't get any nutrients and protein from the milk which is over diluted with water similarly with the dilution of education system the students who will pass out will be hollow and will lack substance.

The whole society is at risk of getting polluted first and then diluted later

The existing gurus and guardians must hold their nerve and not let loose these new developing learner psyche and emerge as torch bearers and not succumb to the livelihood earning task.

There are many other jobs where you can earn livelihood.

Whispers of life

Life always whispers to us but we are unable to listen to the whispers due to noise of our thoughts.
Life whispers to us through experiences , exposures to uncertain events , pleasant moments , nature and everything inside and outside us.
They are the revelations which one must not miss
They prepare us for the uncertain and infinite journey of life through the finite and mortal medium called body.
Very Soon my first Book WHISPERS OF LIFE will be available.
In this Book , I would share some of the whispers which life has whispered into my being and transformed me and my life journey and I am expressing them to you for your understanding and reference through this book.
Most of us require a support, a assurance to deal with our anxieties about our uncertain journeys and understand the mysterious ways of life.
I hope these whispers will serve as a pointer, reference and motivation to you to allow your life to whisper into your being and transform you and your life journey.

Active Reading and active listening....

Active Reading is similar to active listening.

We spend 10% of our  total communication time  as reading.

During reading we  must ensure we are actively reading .

Reading is a dialogue between you and the writer with no physical proximity.

Hence, while reading it's of utmost importance that we involve ourself with the emotions, context and perspective of the author without tampering with your assumptions and thinking.

Thinking is prohibited while reading because  it interferes with the clearity with which the author wants to  communicate with the reader.

For everybody's knowledge it's scientifically proven that we can live without thinking for long time unlike breathing.
Mediators live without thinking for hours and they don't die.

So we must atleast while reading stop the chatter and involve ourselves with the authors thoughts. 

It's a waste of time ,energy and even money spent on purchasing a book or magazine or Internet bill , if  you don't read actively .

And more importantly the basic fundamental reason for the reading activity is to gain insight is diluted and majority of time the communication between the reader and the author ends up as a misinterpretation or miscommunication.
Major reason for majority of people not completing a book which they start reading is a series of inactive reading episodes leading to less understanding and over a period of time loosing the context and interest .
The results are very disastrous.

Every author has a perspective of an subject
If someone has interest in that subject and has  invested time and resources getting an access to it then one  must atleast mandatorily get an insight of the perspective of the author.
Agreeing with the perspective or not is our  choice but atleast understanding it as it was wrote is our responsibility.

But due to lack of active Reading most of us miss the whole communication.

Effective communication is all about understanding different perspectives of different individuals with whom we communicate and exchange ideas resulting into a productivity of all kinds (financial ,emotional  psychological and spiritual)

Hence read as if the author is speaking in person to you and every word sentence and context of the material has something to convey to you which is utmost important to have a fruitful and productive outcome.

Example of reading and active Reading..

A quote from Karl Max 
"Religion is opium of the masses"

Interpretation of just Reading

In this quote
Firstly religion is quoted as opium (addictive narcotic) putting it in poor light
Secondly the masses i.e the public is put down by showing them addicted and deprived of other better things in life by addiction to religion (projected as opium)

Interpretation of Active reading

An Active Reader interprets the actual meaning of the quote with relevant  context as :
Opium relives pain
And Religion is the only saviour who behaves like a pain killer from all adversities that masses face in their day to day life.

Just see the difference and Miscommunication between reading and active Reading.

Happy Active Reading ...

Assumptions in listening.....

Assumptions are half truth or half baked dishes.
Impatience to listen or find out the complete truth forces us to assume
Facts are far away from assumptions in most of the cases
We assume Coz our mind thinks it knows the complete picture and it's very eager to conclude to a perception .
Mind always operates from the knowledge/known facts or known experience
It calculates and projects on basis of this knowledge and feels good at coming to a premature conclusions through some assumptions
Almost every time conclusions are distorted or tailor made to the sensibilities of mind or comforting the mind and may not necessarily be the facts
Miscommunication is the only outcome when such are the ways of mind
Assumptions based on prejudices are the major hindrance to Miscommunication and disharmony amongst individuals or group of individuals and lack of desired productivity.

Being aware helps in dealing with every circumstances .
Spiritual awareness is a state where you are involved in a experience and yet witnessing it simultaneously.
If we apply same technique /method during concluding any perception then possibility of avoiding assumptions is very real.

Asking few questions before making any conclusions might help..

1) Do I have enough evidence or facts to support my conclusions ?

2) Can I check or probe further about any gaps or disconnects with the communicator or people involved in the communication before making conclusions

3) Can i delay concluding ?

Practicing to delay spontaneous conclusions also might help to see the complete picture

Avoiding assumptions may avoid Miscommunication and may prevent loss of any deal , businesss Opportunity , customer  relationship or in personal life might help maintain relationship or strengthen them with friends and loved ones.

Eg of Assumption in communication

Today I had some work in south mumbai and I stay in suburbs so thought would travel by train

I had to go to Borivili station from kandivili thakur complex and so had to get a Auto.

I got a Auto  and told him want to go to BORIVILI  and he agreed and started confidently taking me on to highway as if he knew where in borivili I wanted to go without even asking me.

I wondered what POWER is he using to read my mind  but thought let me check what happens. Autorockshaw wala took me to borivili station .

I was surprised and asked him how did he knew that I had to go to borivili station and no where else in borivili .he said he drops many people daily from Thakur complex to station .

Ideally I should have communicated with specific location and even the auto rickshaw Driver should have seemed clarity on destination.

But he made an ASSUMPTION  and it miraculously matched with fact.

We also make assumptions daily in our communications

But all assumptions do not match with facts most of the time.

Active listening ...

Today is International listening day
And for records we assume that we listen in every communication
But the research says that we hear or partially listen at the most.
Listening and hearing are not the same
Hearing involves ears only
Listening involves ears , mind and heart and your whole being in awareness
Hearing is allowing the sound inside through ear drums
Listening is making efforts to interpret and understand the perspective ,emotions and context behind the sound without tampering with your prejudices.
Barriers to active listening are thinking while listening, assuming things and applying our prejudices to the sound.
Statistics say that 55% of our daily communication requires listening.
We spend 70 % of our daily awake conscious time in communicating .
Communication is a major part of our life
And 55%of that major part is listening and we hardly listen
No doubt there is so much of misunderstanding, misinterpretation and disharmony in our daily life .
We are away from total chaos in this world  only due to Democracy, society structure and individual adjustments .
The productivity of an human being is approx 10% of his capability
If we communicate well then we may improve our productivity significantly
Our relationships with each other may improve significantly
After all it is said that most important thing humans need is being understood by other fellow being.
So let's on this occasion of International listening day attempt active listening for at least 1 hr in the day.
Listen without thinking and without assuming to your child/ spouse/parents/siblings/ friend/boss/colleague/subordinate /customer whoever is most imp in your life and see the difference it will make to that individual and ultimately to you and your understanding
Happy listening...😊😊😊

Wars, Accident and Diseases would not have been major reason for human death if .....

The Biggest Blessing by God to mankind is that we can choose and be selective about converting our thoughts into speech .

In other way God has put a silencer on our thoughts or given us divine power to talk after choosing a thought.

Other wise the world would have been a very very noise place to reside with the buzzing and restless minds.

Such is the density of thoughts that in every human mind that without the silencer ther would have been casualties and fatalities by noise of thoughts alone  and wars , disease and accident would have not been the major threat to human life .

Lets thank god for this peace from noise of millions of thoughts erupting in each human minds.

These thoughts do make human life restless and stressful and suck peace out of their life.

Though these wars , accidents and rise of diseases are results of these millions and billions of unnecessary overburdened thoughts arising out of human minds only ....

Ignorance is not bliss anymore ,its a curse - Recently proved in Delhi

Ignorance is not bliss anymore  its a curse - Proved by recent Delhi incident

If you ignore its considered as your agreement
If you ignore its considered as encouragment
if you ignore its considered you are not interesed but you dont mind either
If you ignore it is considered as an unwritten invitation to proceed further
If you ignore it is an invitation for unimagined acts or behaviour

Shame and sensitivity has vanished form society hence ignorance once considered as bliss is a curse now

If you ignore then you either end up being a victim or a witness to victimised
If you ignore then you end up being helpless and guilty and also unknowingly party to the event

The recent event in delhi is only a case of  years of ignorance and unknowingly acceptance and also encouragement to the cowardly act of mentally disturbed members of our society towards other member

We have given birth to these demons and encouraged them to grow over the years and reach to such great heights that they can not only dare to imagine but also dare to excecute their imagination without fear of scoiety, law and order and human rights violation

The society at large has been ignoring and unknowingly or knowingly encouraging these demons from last so many years

In country like ours  women dress and behave the most decent way in the world and accept society pressures and so called society laws sacrificiing their own individuality and desires and dreams

Women accept the superiority of men without questioning and accept them as their so called
"PATI PARMESHWAR " post marriage

Such a shame that some men pay their respect back to women with such cowardly acts
and rest of the men silently choose to be a witness or post event pose as a condemnor or moral supporter

Just by condemning or protesting these acts wont vanish

These demons may become dormant for sometime and then emerge again as the society goes into deep slumber

Society cannot be complete without WOMEN

If they feel threatened or unsafe or unrespected in society then the society is on the verge of collapse

The law and order situation is only a pretention and in spirit nobody is taking it seriously

The only way is to" STOP IGNORING "

REMEMBER IF YOU IGNORE YOU ARE GIVING YOUR CONSENT

IGNORING IS PARTICIPATING AND ENCOURAGING

This time it was that unfortunate 23 year old delhi girl , next time it could be your family member also

Even a thought of above statement is so scary , imagine the plight of family of that girl

May her soul rest in peace and May our soul awaken from the deep slumber of ignorance

MBA degree is like Paraglyder

MBA degree is a prestigious qualification for an individual as well as the professional society

It is a lot of hardwork to get to the completion of the curriculum and reach the convocation successfully to get the reward as degree

Also the degree helps to take your career higher .

MBA degree is similar to a Paraglyder ...........

A paraglyder training is provided on the top of a mountain cliff

Firstly you reach to the top of mountain with all the hardwork , then you get trained to fly high in the sky using the paraglyder

Then finaly when you are ready you dare to jump from the mountain cliff with the paraglyder to rise higher in the sky and enjoy the experience

Same is with the MBA degree

Many of us take pains to reach top of the mountain by studying hard , committing to the course of MBA , investing money in to the course.

Many of us get trained for the use of paraglyder in the sky ( MBA degree in the market)

Then when we are given the paraglyder ( MBA degree) and asked to jump from the cliff ( enter into the market and encash the benefit and fly high in our professional lives)

Some dare to use the paraglyder and jump of the cliff to see whether they can fly

Some  find success and fly high and enjoy the experience

Some of them think that getting paraglyder is the only thing which is most important,
Without proper attention to training and use of paraglyder they think that paraglyder will help them to fly high

They jump with the paraglyder and fall on the face in the woods or trees and blame that the paraglyder is of no use , it does not help or the company( MBA institute) which had made this paraglyder is not good.

Some of them don't even dare to jump from the cliff and take their paraglyder climb down and keep the paraglyder as a trophy at home and forget they had ever got the training to fly using paraglyder

The Paraglyder ( Degree)  is a means to fly in the sky ( professional world)

If you do not learn it to fly it won't help

Even after training yourself thoroughly if you do not test it or have confidence to jump of the cliff it wont help

Also for those who jump with the paraglyder in the sky its not easy , adjusting to the 3 dimensional sky and  wind currents  is a challenge in it self ( same like in professional market ever changing new challenges  and environments)

So ultimately if you have done the hard work of climbing the mountain , then get trained properly and then dare to jump of the cliff and constantly adjust to the wind currents and dont think that paraglyder will take care of you, its just a means to fly higher

Paraglyder ( Degree ) will only be a mean to fly in the sky

It is upto you how you use it and go higher

Hibernating Human souls

We are hibernating souls , alive but in deep slumber waiting for some wake up call

We don't listen to ourselves, our inner voice  , then what the poor world can expect from us

We have turned insensitive to ourselves and turned deaf ears to our own soul

The U  in everyone of us has lost somewhere 

We require the world around us to motivate us ,

We wait for a motivating event in life

We wait for our boss , friend, and many people to come and motivate us to put our best

We require someone else to tell us that we are good at something then only  we can accept it

We always don't believe ourselves and our capabilities

We wait for a recognition, affirmation , confirmation from society

But what if society is not mature enough to understand you and your talent , your uniqueness and your thoughts

We surrender anything easily which society rejects or doesn't appreciate

Thank god that there are few people who believe in themselves and their capabilities more than the society and its recognition

These people are Wright brothers , Albert Einstein , Isaac Newton,Thomas Edison , Archimedes, and many who believed themselves and did'nt care even when society laughed at them

As a result of these people's self belief we have so many discoveries and inventions serving mankind

Why any motivating book or lecture or training has a limited effect on majority of us ?

Because we come out of hibernation for sometime , it feels good when you read a motivating book or attend a inspirational program but when we realize that the book is over or the inspirational  program is over and we are on our own,then we choose to go back in hibernation again.

Even RHINO skin can be penetrated but HUMAN SENSES have thickened beyond the RHINO skin

This is is not a negative remark on humanity

Its a rather TIGHT SLAP which everyone of us require from time to time to awaken from the deep slumber

Scarcity of Talent OR Scarce will and patience to identify and groom talent

World over there is a scarcity of skillful and talented Human resource

HR department of world organizations are in constant search of super talent and skills

In past so many years there is hardly any change in the composition of cerebrum in the newly born

There is hardly any evidence of deteriorating cerebral capacity in the new born babies

Then why there is hew and cry of deficient talent

The human brains were , are and will be most talented with unimaginable power to conceive , create and put their actions into their thoughts.

The real question is whether we have the patience, tolerance, empathy , compassion  and the will to understand talent and get it  aligned  to our objectives ( organizational objectives)

The dearth of talent was never there , never is and never will be .....

The diamonds ( Human talent)  are forever lying to be grabbed

But  identification of the diamonds and polishing the rough diamonds is a challenge with which the whole world organizations are grappling with.

We are living in the world which is getting used to READY MADE things

We don't want to invest and understand in knowing what goes in making something ready

This philosophy of ready made things have been applied to Human Resource as well

Hence the illusion of scarcity of talent all over

If you are talented then you will see talent everywhere

Greek exit from eurozone is ???? But Greed must exit Mankind

Greek Debt crisis is world's top economic news nowadays

In future Greek would be less known for its rich history and civilization then its recent economic crisis.

Whether GREEK WOULD EXIT EURO ZONE OR NOT its unclear as of now ,

But one thing is clear that " GREED MUST EXIT MANKIND"

Greed is contagious and difficult to contain ,

Its effects are devastating and long lasting then the prevailing economic crisis.

The world has recovered from many economic crisis in the past , But has yet to come out of Greed crisis.

Since ancient times mankind has been suffering from Greed for Land, Food and Power.

A man requires so little food to survive , so much less land to stay and just look at the resources available for our consumption around us in the nature,

Even the population of 7 billion humans is far smaller than the resources available for our survival,

But Greed has possessed us and converted the abundance of resource around us into a scarcity

We cannot tolerate each others happiness , growth and prosperity.

According to  a recent stastics  the worlds half wealth is with only  2% of the population.

Look at the Greed , 2 % of population is simply not in any sense capable of consuming the enormous wealth and resources they have with them.

They might have worked hard, got lucky, used their brains , for accumulation of such enormous wealth , all fair ...

But under any circumstances accumulation of wealth and resources which is beyond one's capability to consume in one life is just unfair , unjust and a mere stupidity.

But all this stupidity and madness is possible due to Greed .

Hence I conclude that Greek exiting or not exiting from eurozone will not have a long lasting effect on existence of mankind,

But  Greed must exit mankind or else the human race will exit from the earth.

Organisation without soul is a mass of corpses

Soul gives meaning to body , soul lives till eternity and soul only changes body to rejuvenate.

An organisation without sensitivity and compassion is as good as body without soul

Its like a group of people collectively loosing or sacrificing sensitivity and compassion.

And such a group inspire or force in some situations others to join them.

Imagine what would happen to people who would have to deal with such organisation ?

The vendors, suppliers, employees and most importantly the customers.

They all end up suffering in short term.

And in long term some of them end up absorbing the culture and becoming soul less like the organisation.

Life breeds life

Soul in a body is life

Would corpses breed anything ?  No never , they just decay and decompose.

An organisation without soul (sensitivity and compassion) starts decaying like a corpse

The decaying process starts the moment the soul leaves the body

The bigger the organisation the longer it decays before completely decomposing

Life starts when a soul enters into a body

Similarly a Organisation comes into existence through sensitivity and compassion may be worse to worse case the sensitivity and compassion is skewed towards self more and less to others or society at large.

A group of people through their sensitivity and compassion indentify a problem in society due to deficient or non existant product or services .

After understanding the problem the group finds a solution to the problem in the form of a new product or a service.

This product or service then adds value to the society and in return value to the group in terms of recognition and monetory

This is how sensitive and compassionate people join each other and an organisation comes into existence

Then the evil side of the human starts taking over and some of the members of the organisation sacrifice their soul  for reasons like ( competition, growth, desire to survive at any cost ) and soon the virus spreads all over the organisation.

The journey of a living organisation to a soul less corpses may be shorter for some organisation and longer for others due to size and some resistence shown by good people in the organsiation

But overall the sensitivity and compassion has remained on the paper and in some cases they are hidden behind professionalism , dynamism and aggressiveness.

Organisation take pride in calling themselves professional, dynamic and aggressive against being called as sensitive and compassionate.

Every human being has equal amount of sensitivity and compassion

We need to protect it , nurture it , share it with each other because its our sole source of existence.

if you want to be Powerfull and strong

If you really want to be powerfull and strong then
Compete with yourself,
Surrender the idea of controlling others
Only give and share without expectation in return
Then see the Power and strength you attain